Welcome. I'm Shayne Berry.
I'm glad you're here.
I'm here in service to Truth:
mine, yours and the collective's.
I believe that one of the most beautiful paths to the wider Divine Truths is being deeply witnessed in our own unique moment to moment truths.
mine, yours and the collective's.
I believe that one of the most beautiful paths to the wider Divine Truths is being deeply witnessed in our own unique moment to moment truths.
I am a mother, an artist, a magic maker, and a deep momentary
witness to both life and death.
I am a connector, a sacred song weaver, a heart tender,
a grief practitioner, a love practitioner and a ceremonialist.
I lead circles of connection, with the purpose of humans finding their way back to the truth of who they are, and what is to be exquisitely celebrated there. I also support people one on one, as they walk through the Sacred Thresholds of the human journey.
witness to both life and death.
I am a connector, a sacred song weaver, a heart tender,
a grief practitioner, a love practitioner and a ceremonialist.
I lead circles of connection, with the purpose of humans finding their way back to the truth of who they are, and what is to be exquisitely celebrated there. I also support people one on one, as they walk through the Sacred Thresholds of the human journey.
~SACRED THRESHOLDS~
My practice is rooted in the belief that each of us is already Whole and Holy. We are each part of the Divine, and we are all walking the soul/human journey of polishing the stone to find the gold within. Just as our Spirit can inform our human self, so can the awareness of what the human body holds, inform our Spirit selves. My work serves as a bridge between the two.
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Some of the Thresholds I walk individuals through are:
-The ending of a relationship -Loss of a loved one -Relationship Clarity -Loss of a job/identity/sense of purpose/sense of safety in the world -Creating Authentic Connection with another individual or group -Being in middle-school/high school -Stepping into Intentional Dating and Conscious Relationships -Living with Chronic illness -Connection-based Parenthood -Reprogramming our internal/external communication patterns I also facilitate personal + group ceremony as well as Authentic Relating + Meditation Group Experiences To me, Thresholds are pivot points in our lives. And whether they are excruciating or exciting, they offer a unique opportunity for intense expansion and growth. Whether that means learning how to offer safe passage to our feelings, or recalibrating our subconscious beliefs, thresholds offer a kind of a masterclass in humaning. My role is to hold the lantern, help translate the feelings, lovingly guide the journey into the sacredness held here. Thresholds are an opportunity to dive in deep, so that we can come out living with greater self-awareness, more ease, and more connection than before. (To self, others and Spirit)
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TOOLS FOR OUR JOURNEY:
(A session can include one or many of these tools, depending on your unique needs)
1. Emotional Alchemy + Grief-tending
Knowing how to feel our feelings is a superpower. Feelings (energy) need to move through our bodies (matter), we can learn to offer safe passage to allow this energy to move through us with more ease. Our lives open up and lighten exponentially when we are less afraid of feeling, holding less resistance, because we know how to experience it in a sacred way. (What we think we are afraid of, is actually the feeling that we imagine would come along with the thing we fear. Wow, right?!)
Emotional alchemy brings space to fully feel sadness, pain, fear, unworthiness, sorrow, and instead of resisiting these feelings, keeping them stuck in our bodies, we learn how to give them safe passage through us.
Grief, though such a normal part of the human journey, is swept under the rug in our culture. Grief needs more spaces, both public and private, to unfold.
As humans, it's vital that we acknowledge both the small griefs and the large ones. We grieve for what we thought could be, we grieve for the loss of ourselves,
another or a way of life. We grieve for humanity. We grieve when a major loss strips us of a loved one and in turn a way of life.
Many cultures around the world allow sorrow to be as normalized as joy. We grieve because we love.
This is one of my favorite ways to work with people, creating a safe space for grief to be heard,
witnessed, listened to and normalized.
Knowing how to feel our feelings is a superpower. Feelings (energy) need to move through our bodies (matter), we can learn to offer safe passage to allow this energy to move through us with more ease. Our lives open up and lighten exponentially when we are less afraid of feeling, holding less resistance, because we know how to experience it in a sacred way. (What we think we are afraid of, is actually the feeling that we imagine would come along with the thing we fear. Wow, right?!)
Emotional alchemy brings space to fully feel sadness, pain, fear, unworthiness, sorrow, and instead of resisiting these feelings, keeping them stuck in our bodies, we learn how to give them safe passage through us.
Grief, though such a normal part of the human journey, is swept under the rug in our culture. Grief needs more spaces, both public and private, to unfold.
As humans, it's vital that we acknowledge both the small griefs and the large ones. We grieve for what we thought could be, we grieve for the loss of ourselves,
another or a way of life. We grieve for humanity. We grieve when a major loss strips us of a loved one and in turn a way of life.
Many cultures around the world allow sorrow to be as normalized as joy. We grieve because we love.
This is one of my favorite ways to work with people, creating a safe space for grief to be heard,
witnessed, listened to and normalized.
2. Elevated Communication Practice
There is a sweet spot in communication skill building, where we can cognitively learn effective practices, and then begin to embody them deeply and naturally in our connections as well as our self-understanding. I believe the most powerful communication shifts happen internally, with a change of perspective.
Getting here brings more:
Ease
Trust
Permission
Expansiveness
Safety
Belonging
Agency
Authentic Connection
You can read more about my communication toolbox, beliefs and background HERE
There is a sweet spot in communication skill building, where we can cognitively learn effective practices, and then begin to embody them deeply and naturally in our connections as well as our self-understanding. I believe the most powerful communication shifts happen internally, with a change of perspective.
Getting here brings more:
Ease
Trust
Permission
Expansiveness
Safety
Belonging
Agency
Authentic Connection
You can read more about my communication toolbox, beliefs and background HERE
3. Hypnotherapeutic Sacred Journey Work
Hypnotherapy works to guide our focus- where our focus is, our power lies. With Hypnotherapy we can access parts of our subconcious mind to bring shifts to our everyday lives- Shifts in our belief systems, habits, energetic connections, self-narratives, life paths and relational patterns.
A Hypnotherapuetic Journey is a Sacred Space where one can receive guidance, support, direction, clarity, release, clearing, and reclaim parts of one’s self.
The specific Journey Work that I guide is informed by my 15 years of in-person study with Shamans, Somatic Nervous System Practitioners, and Non-Violent Communication Master Teachers, as well as my Hypnotherapy Training. This work focuses in the present moment, and does not require you to access past experiences.
This is both an emergent experience, where each journey is different, as well as a safe alchemical container led by you, the Divine and myself.
Hypnotherapy works to guide our focus- where our focus is, our power lies. With Hypnotherapy we can access parts of our subconcious mind to bring shifts to our everyday lives- Shifts in our belief systems, habits, energetic connections, self-narratives, life paths and relational patterns.
A Hypnotherapuetic Journey is a Sacred Space where one can receive guidance, support, direction, clarity, release, clearing, and reclaim parts of one’s self.
The specific Journey Work that I guide is informed by my 15 years of in-person study with Shamans, Somatic Nervous System Practitioners, and Non-Violent Communication Master Teachers, as well as my Hypnotherapy Training. This work focuses in the present moment, and does not require you to access past experiences.
This is both an emergent experience, where each journey is different, as well as a safe alchemical container led by you, the Divine and myself.
4. Nervous System Support
I liken living with a human Nervous System to driving a car that we've never been given the manual to drive. I draw on Polyvagal Theory, Attachment Science, Sound Therapy and provide nervous system support through the offerings of:
Deep, Attuned Listening
Intuitive Reflections
Co-Regulation
Sound Therapy
Nervous System Education
I liken living with a human Nervous System to driving a car that we've never been given the manual to drive. I draw on Polyvagal Theory, Attachment Science, Sound Therapy and provide nervous system support through the offerings of:
Deep, Attuned Listening
Intuitive Reflections
Co-Regulation
Sound Therapy
Nervous System Education
5. Personal or Group Ceremony
Ceremony is an intentional transformative moment of letting go, calling in or giving witness to.
I co-create ceremonies and experiences with individuals and groups, often using the elements of nature as our guide, to honor experiences such as:
Loss
Grief
Celebration
Authentic Relating + Belonging
Relationship Endings / Cord Cutting
Releasing The Old, Welcoming The New
Calling In An Aligned Partner or Purpose
Stepping Through Any Threshold In One's Life
Ceremony is an intentional transformative moment of letting go, calling in or giving witness to.
I co-create ceremonies and experiences with individuals and groups, often using the elements of nature as our guide, to honor experiences such as:
Loss
Grief
Celebration
Authentic Relating + Belonging
Relationship Endings / Cord Cutting
Releasing The Old, Welcoming The New
Calling In An Aligned Partner or Purpose
Stepping Through Any Threshold In One's Life
